The constant,neverending search

There are times when we take notice of people we know who are constantly getting in and out of relationships or who seem to get reattached so quickly after a breakup.Some of us may envy them for being so popular amongst members of the opposite sex and that they are so fortunate to be able to get into a relationhsip so easily. I feel that such people do not require our admiration. In my opinioin,the reason behind their constant being in and out of relationships lies in the fact that they are in constant search for something that they have yet been able to find. They may be looking for a particular factor in a relationship or a partner with a specific character. What they are searching for is what will make them feel that the relationship is right. If they are unable to find what they are looking for,over time,they may end up feeling that the relationship is heading the wrong way and hence,the relationship may then end up in a breakup. The important thing in this matter is not whether the relationship ends up in a breakup or not. But rather,the actions of the person after the breakup. A person who is really commited to a relationship will take time to recover from the wounds of a failed one however,if one is just getting into relationships hoping to find the "right one", eventually what is going to happen is he or she will soon end up in yet another relationship just so that he or she could "try out" and hopefully find what they are looking for. These are the poeple who do not have a sense of security as they do not trust that the current relationship they are in may just be the right one. To them,all options are open and they are always in a constant lookout for greener pastures. When they come upon a bump in the road along the way,they assume that it is a telltale sign that the relationship is not the right one. Instead of looking for solutions to the problem,they choose to run away from it completely and simply move on to yet another relationship with yet another person. This way,there is going to be a never ending quest until the day they see that everything is certain ahead. To those who have never gotten into a relationship,are currently in a stable relationship or even those who are currently single but have been in relationships that lasted for sometime,i feel that we should be thankful for the state that we are in. It is always better to know what we are looking for than to be in a constant,neverending search for something we have no clue about.