Truly fantastic

She who says the same words as me at times,who believes in me when i don't, who supports me even when no one else does, who loves me ever so deeply, thats my babe. Ah,we're now into our 9th mth of being together and though it ain't long,at least i can say that it is a milestone - simply because we've been through a whole lot during this period of time. There'll always be those happy moments,filled with laughter and never ending sweetness but then again,who can ever forget the times we disagreed with one another,when neither of us would budge and give in to the other and when both of us would stubbornly stand our ground. In our own words,we were simply being a nehneh or nehnehs to say. But all these sourness and bitterness aside,this relationship is indeed special. It's foundation is so much more sound - built upon trust and the determination to press on no matter what. Taking a look around, i know that there are couples out there who have made it further than us and are still together but then again, how many couples have started out after us but ended up going apart while we're still together? Even more apalling is the fact that people we know who have been in a relationship for a shorter period than us are actually getting engaged and to take it one step further,even getting married. I am stating this not because i am envious of them but rather,i feel that such decisions may be a little hasty. Afterall,it is only thorugh time that you can know a person better so i doubt that under such a circumstance of knowing someone only for a few months can a person be certain that his or her partner is the right one. Only time can tell if 2 people will really be able to live with one another. The initial stage may still be premature to decide as it is still in the honeymoon period,i'd rather wait a couple more years before i make the life changing decision. Marriage is not a joking matter,it is a lifelong commitment and bond between 2 people. For now,babe and i seem truly made for one another but then again,there's still some distance to go. Despite all these,i am optimistic that we can make it and i really want it to happen,especially so when she has been such a truly fantastic girlfriend of mine=).