Some things to ponder about.
The past few days saw me meeting up with jj on 2 occasions,on friday for movie and lan and on sunday,for church and lan. The details of what we did aren't important but rather,2 things we happened to talk about shall be the focus of this entry...
1)I can recall how on friday,while we were having dinner at bugis longjohn silvers,there was this group of hearing impaired youths next to us having their meal as well. I happened to notice them as they were all smiles but yet not a single word came out from their mouths. It was then that i caught sight of hearing aid devices tucked behind their ears. All of a sudden,i told jj how i would not mind even if my wife was deaf because these are the people who are truly down to earth,who would not put on airs and are not corrupted by our modern society. They are the people who lead simple lives and who cherish the things around them because of one simple reason,that they are already lacking something which normally others would have--the ability to hear. JJ then commented that it would be a challenge when it came to living with such a person and in time to come,to start a family with.He then added that most probably,these people would find spouses who have similar disabilities as them as afterall,they would find it easier to communicate with one another. It then dawned upon me that what JJ said really did make sense. Definately being with someone like that would have it's own share of challenges but i was not discouraged with the fact that if i were to meet someone right who had such a disability i would still want to be with her. I admit that communication would be a problem initially but i believe that with time,such a hurdle can be overcomed as well,provided she does not see herself as being incompatible with me.Afterall,i am sure it is the love and not the problems that truly matter....Don't get me wrong,these are just some of my thoughts. Really,they do not mean anything and no,i am not interested in anyone if you happened to be thinking in that direction,haha.
2)Then came sunday. After church service,we were on our way to the MRT station to catch a train over to dhoby ghaut when we brought up the topic of how it occurred to both of us that after our own personal breakups,we no longer had the "luck" to actually bump into our ex-girlfriends anymore. I found this rather true as well because ever since my breakup sometime ago,i had lost the ability to coincidentally meet up with my ex-girlfriend,unlike last time when we were still together,we would somehow be in the same place at the same time. I guess i believe that fate really does exist in this world,that when 2 individuals are fated to be together or to meet one another,no matter under what circumstances,they would still cross paths. On the other hand,once fate no longer plays a part in 2 individual's lives,no matter how hard a person tries,visiting past haunts etc,both of them would never come face to face by sheer chance again. Perhaps one party may be avoiding the other by trying not to visit those places they always went to for fear of meeting up but i still believe that rather,it is more about those 2 people still visiting these places,only that they were no longer "scheduled" to meet coincidentally again. Afterall,singapore isn't that big and i'm sure that if 2 people were really going to avoid meeting one another,they would really have nowhere left to go,don't you think so? So for now,i would continue to go to places as and when i desire and see for myself if there is a possibility that for once,i would actually be meeting my ex-girlfriend out on the streets,with her current boyfriend perhaps? Wonder how it would be like? Lol.
1)I can recall how on friday,while we were having dinner at bugis longjohn silvers,there was this group of hearing impaired youths next to us having their meal as well. I happened to notice them as they were all smiles but yet not a single word came out from their mouths. It was then that i caught sight of hearing aid devices tucked behind their ears. All of a sudden,i told jj how i would not mind even if my wife was deaf because these are the people who are truly down to earth,who would not put on airs and are not corrupted by our modern society. They are the people who lead simple lives and who cherish the things around them because of one simple reason,that they are already lacking something which normally others would have--the ability to hear. JJ then commented that it would be a challenge when it came to living with such a person and in time to come,to start a family with.He then added that most probably,these people would find spouses who have similar disabilities as them as afterall,they would find it easier to communicate with one another. It then dawned upon me that what JJ said really did make sense. Definately being with someone like that would have it's own share of challenges but i was not discouraged with the fact that if i were to meet someone right who had such a disability i would still want to be with her. I admit that communication would be a problem initially but i believe that with time,such a hurdle can be overcomed as well,provided she does not see herself as being incompatible with me.Afterall,i am sure it is the love and not the problems that truly matter....Don't get me wrong,these are just some of my thoughts. Really,they do not mean anything and no,i am not interested in anyone if you happened to be thinking in that direction,haha.
2)Then came sunday. After church service,we were on our way to the MRT station to catch a train over to dhoby ghaut when we brought up the topic of how it occurred to both of us that after our own personal breakups,we no longer had the "luck" to actually bump into our ex-girlfriends anymore. I found this rather true as well because ever since my breakup sometime ago,i had lost the ability to coincidentally meet up with my ex-girlfriend,unlike last time when we were still together,we would somehow be in the same place at the same time. I guess i believe that fate really does exist in this world,that when 2 individuals are fated to be together or to meet one another,no matter under what circumstances,they would still cross paths. On the other hand,once fate no longer plays a part in 2 individual's lives,no matter how hard a person tries,visiting past haunts etc,both of them would never come face to face by sheer chance again. Perhaps one party may be avoiding the other by trying not to visit those places they always went to for fear of meeting up but i still believe that rather,it is more about those 2 people still visiting these places,only that they were no longer "scheduled" to meet coincidentally again. Afterall,singapore isn't that big and i'm sure that if 2 people were really going to avoid meeting one another,they would really have nowhere left to go,don't you think so? So for now,i would continue to go to places as and when i desire and see for myself if there is a possibility that for once,i would actually be meeting my ex-girlfriend out on the streets,with her current boyfriend perhaps? Wonder how it would be like? Lol.
posted by Y0uH0 at 12:34 AM
2 Comments:
happy enjoying life!! :)
haha,where got? this shows that i am a thinker ok..sometimes maybe think too much only.Lol
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