My my...

Returned home not too long ago and on my way home, i came across what i perceived to be a fight/ argument between 2 or more indians at hougang plaza.There were lots of bystanders but no policemen..perhaps they have yet to arrive. For a moment my ex-police instincts kicked in and a thought of intervening came upon me but on second thoughts, i had better not get myself involved less i get injured or possibly killed. Made me look back on my policing days and how we used to come across such cases every now and then. Somehow, seems like disputes are a norm nowadays. 2 more days to korea trip. It's gonna be a very wet and cold christmas.

5days

I'll be leaving for Korea in another 5 more days. Will be away on an 8days holiday with my family. A pity though that babe won't be able to come along or we would definately end up having so much fun together. When i am gone, i am definately gonna miss her so much. Whats more is christmas happens to fall on one of the days that i am away. Sigh, so much for always longing to spend christmas with a special someone. Well at least this time round, i can say that i am attached, rather than being single every christmas, for the past 20 yrs of my life. So at least theres a slight improvement. Hopefully the day that we can spend christmas together will come real soon. I'm sure that it will be so nice. Happy holidays everyone=). Hohoho!

It's weird..

I think that it is funny how couples can start out all lovey and dovey at the beginning but subsequently start to bicker and quarrel till some of them end up in breakups.. hmm, i guess when 2 people just got together, they have yet to know one another well enough so there isn't much a cause for friction between them. However, as time passes and they get more acquainted, probably some bad habits start to surface and the couple realise that their partner is no longer as "good" as they had used to be. Another reason could be the fact that as time passes, we will get so comfortable with our partners till the extent that somehow,we see things as a norm and inevitably up our expectations of one another,hoping to see something better and different. All these will lead to squabbles which i feel is essential to a relationship. Of course who doesn't want a relationship which is totally smooth sailing and filled with happy days throughout? The truth is,things just aren't meant to be that way..a little bickering is good - to help 2 individuals get to know one another better. Somehow the only place with happily ever after only occurs in fairytales. Whats more, some beneficial squabbling may just be the ingredient to add that extra spice to the relationship! OooOOO! Haha.