Saturday, December 15, 2007

It's weird..

I think that it is funny how couples can start out all lovey and dovey at the beginning but subsequently start to bicker and quarrel till some of them end up in breakups.. hmm, i guess when 2 people just got together, they have yet to know one another well enough so there isn't much a cause for friction between them. However, as time passes and they get more acquainted, probably some bad habits start to surface and the couple realise that their partner is no longer as "good" as they had used to be. Another reason could be the fact that as time passes, we will get so comfortable with our partners till the extent that somehow,we see things as a norm and inevitably up our expectations of one another,hoping to see something better and different. All these will lead to squabbles which i feel is essential to a relationship. Of course who doesn't want a relationship which is totally smooth sailing and filled with happy days throughout? The truth is,things just aren't meant to be that way..a little bickering is good - to help 2 individuals get to know one another better. Somehow the only place with happily ever after only occurs in fairytales. Whats more, some beneficial squabbling may just be the ingredient to add that extra spice to the relationship! OooOOO! Haha.

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