Saturday, June 02, 2007

The Good times and the Bad

Being with my love has been really great. I mean what more can i ask for? She is simply the type of girl that i have been looking for -- adorable,fun loving,natural,pretty...well the list just goes on. But i guess that no matter how made for each other a couple may be,there will still be times of disagreement. And for the 2 of us,our disagreements are the result of nothing major actually but rather because at times we just aren't sensitive enough towards one another's feelings and on other occasions perhaps we are just being overly sensitive. Not being sensitive enough in a sense when sometimes we may just say somethings casually without realising that it actually affects the other person and on the other hand being overly sensitive like in my case when sometimes i get jealous because of the guys she socialises with and how she behaves with them around. 4 months on,these are the only reasons why we have ever been upset but do not get me wrong. Not a single time has the relationship ever been strained. We still love each other as deeply as ever and in no time,after a good talk and perhaps the shedding of some tears,things are back to normal once again. To me,these are just part and parcel of being in a relationship but if i could decide,definately i would choose to leave them out. It is only through all these that we can understand our other half better. Issues such as these are simply not the sort that would cause us to go apart.Infact, i don't see what can ever cause us to go apart other than us not loving one another anymore. Whether to remain in a relationship or not is the choice of both parties. If either one sees the challenges that may come along as too much to take then inevitably it would end up in a breakup. What a relationship requires is committment,trust and constant communication. With all these factors in place,there is simply no reason for 2 people who are deeply in love to go apart. Just like me and her,we really are so meant to be, having numerous similar likes and dislikes and even sharing the same thoughts,views and sometimes even comments. I love her alot and i believe that we can make it to the end when most others have failed. In the meantime,i will try to be more sensitive in areas that i should be and less sensitive when i am not needed to be.

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