The Ups and Downs

It's been slightly more than 2 mths that we have been together. Over the course of these 2 months,we have experienced the ups and downs of our relationship. There were plenty of smiles and laughter but then again there are also the times when we had our disagreements. Somehow i do not believe what others say,about the initial stage of a relationship being the "honeymoon period". I feel that if anything were to happen - quarrels or disagreements,they need not happen only after a specific phase in the relationship. Instead,such incidents can take place anytime,anywhere. It is simply the process of getting to know one another better. How a couple is going to handle the issue is what is important. If they choose to see all these as signs telling them that they are incompatible,then most probably,the relationship will end up in a breakup. Instead,if they choose to learn and understand one another better by giving and taking,the relationship can only get stronger. Well,for me,i believe in the latter... I choose to see disagreements as an avenue to know my love better,to be a better boyfriend for her. Like i've mentioned before,being with her is an enntirely different feeling from what i had in the past. I'm not saying that in the past what i felt was nothing but rather,being with her,i feel so much more at ease. I really feel comfortable and there is simply no restrictions. I'm sure the same goes for her as well am i right? Haha. Anyway,being with her,i am able to see the future. I can picture what is installed for us and how everything would be like in time to come. For now,although all these have not come true, i can already say that it is going to be beautiful- provided i can realise it all with her. Everyday with her is like a blessing and sometimes i still think about how i could actually end up with her. Well i am happy,so very happy to have her in my life and all i am hoping for is for this relationship to be able to withstand the trials of time and the challenges that may come along. Arguments and disagreements will still come along but till then,i am gonna enjoy every single moment with her. Even if they happen,i will not give up,afterall,there is no such thing as a honeymoon period and we did not end up together just by chance=)